Love Yourself: Can you afford to be sooo nice?

An important key to success, abundance and having all you want is how you treat yourself...aka love yourself. Are you nicer to other people than yourself? Do you treat other people better than you?
Life is like a chess game. It has strategy, moves, obstacles so it needs planning.
Do you love yourself? Then start now. Play the game of life and win. Win for yourself now.
Are you selfish with yourself or are you always being selfless?
Self + less= less money, joy, happiness & abundance in your life.
What is love? What does loving yourself really mean?
Start by starting with simple easy things to appreciate yourself:
Pick, buy some flowers for yourself. Put bright cheerful flowers you love in your home.
It will remind you that you are special, loved and appreciated.

Bright colors like pinks, red and purple with green accents can make you feel brighter and positive.
Cheer up your home and kick some good happy, positive & loving energy into your life.
It's fun and a cheerful activity.
Decorate the whole house if you like as the floral smell of roses & flowers is magical and known as "love."
Spread some flower love around your home.

Don't you feel better? Maybe you've put on a nicer dress around the house? Did your makeup and hair? Well aren't you looking good? Yes to you.
So you've taken baby steps to feel good about yourself by treating yourself to some simple things to remind you your worth it, deserve it and  loving it. If you love yourself your energy gets a kick start and it's like a positive energy that can have a great magnetic effect in your life.
Now, your throwing parties and everyone is asking you about your new secret as something is different about you? We'll.....I love myself and now it shows.
I'm making sure my flower vase is always filled. Try some fun things to which if you have kids they'll love put the candy in the jar arrangement.

Your laughing and smiling now. You're creative now. You have reminded yourself to have fun and live a beautiful life. It feels good. It feels good to nice things weather grand or simple.
Now for you to splurge and go get your hair fixed at the salon monthly. Go get that massage you've been wanting. Go get that little new Prada dress which makes you feel like school girl. Learn to say yes to splurging, indulging for yourself. Suddenly if you feel you deserve nice things the money is flowing. You get treated with a friend to go to a spa girl weekend! You get a present or a big commission check that you didn't think would happen. You are offered a better job or raise. You start your own business and have a investor who believes in you. All things are possible and it is easier when you love yourself. You are more confident, believable, joy able and attracting the "right" into your life. Just thing is all start with flowers you picked or bought to brighten your home and say to yourself "I love you."
Try it. Say it. "I love you." Go to the mirror right now. Look at yourself and say "I love you." Skip all urges to say I see gray hairs, I need to go do my hair first. Stop. Just stop with all that "fear" stuff. It is simple as picking 1 flower on your walk and bringing to your home and putting it in a jar and filling it with water.
Say it with positive feeling: "I love you." There feels good. Yes to you. Yes to a great, beautiful and happy life filled with special treasures.

It starts with being nice to yourself. After you've mastered being nice to yourself first with simple easy indulgences then you can splurge on to bigger and better things. Play the game of life. Everyone else does.
Big business games. All games. Study chess, educate, learn and choose wisely for yourself. Then you can choose wisely for your family ad those you love. Love + nice to yourself = Winner.
By this time I bet your house looks more like a celebration party where someone is treating you to a party.

Surpassed! You've been thrown a party! A simple outdoor picnic can be an extravagant way to celebrate the new you that has emerged with just 1 flower. Bloom into the beautiful you. Love yourself. Be nice to yourself. You've heard over and over: treat and respect yourself right and others will do the same. So, look at you now. Being pampered to tea & crumpets. You are fantastic. Thank you for liking you.  If no one ever told you that you were special and a lovely person then I'll tell you: You are lovely. Thanks for being the wonderful you -you are! That smile with the rose looks great on you.

To your new life with sweet indulgences of "niceties" to yourself. You have just won the game of chess.
Cheers.