Love Yourself: Can you afford to be sooo nice?

An important key to success, abundance and having all you want is how you treat yourself...aka love yourself. Are you nicer to other people than yourself? Do you treat other people better than you?
Life is like a chess game. It has strategy, moves, obstacles so it needs planning.
Do you love yourself? Then start now. Play the game of life and win. Win for yourself now.
Are you selfish with yourself or are you always being selfless?
Self + less= less money, joy, happiness & abundance in your life.
What is love? What does loving yourself really mean?
Start by starting with simple easy things to appreciate yourself:
Pick, buy some flowers for yourself. Put bright cheerful flowers you love in your home.
It will remind you that you are special, loved and appreciated.

Bright colors like pinks, red and purple with green accents can make you feel brighter and positive.
Cheer up your home and kick some good happy, positive & loving energy into your life.
It's fun and a cheerful activity.
Decorate the whole house if you like as the floral smell of roses & flowers is magical and known as "love."
Spread some flower love around your home.

Don't you feel better? Maybe you've put on a nicer dress around the house? Did your makeup and hair? Well aren't you looking good? Yes to you.
So you've taken baby steps to feel good about yourself by treating yourself to some simple things to remind you your worth it, deserve it and  loving it. If you love yourself your energy gets a kick start and it's like a positive energy that can have a great magnetic effect in your life.
Now, your throwing parties and everyone is asking you about your new secret as something is different about you? We'll.....I love myself and now it shows.
I'm making sure my flower vase is always filled. Try some fun things to which if you have kids they'll love put the candy in the jar arrangement.

Your laughing and smiling now. You're creative now. You have reminded yourself to have fun and live a beautiful life. It feels good. It feels good to nice things weather grand or simple.
Now for you to splurge and go get your hair fixed at the salon monthly. Go get that massage you've been wanting. Go get that little new Prada dress which makes you feel like school girl. Learn to say yes to splurging, indulging for yourself. Suddenly if you feel you deserve nice things the money is flowing. You get treated with a friend to go to a spa girl weekend! You get a present or a big commission check that you didn't think would happen. You are offered a better job or raise. You start your own business and have a investor who believes in you. All things are possible and it is easier when you love yourself. You are more confident, believable, joy able and attracting the "right" into your life. Just thing is all start with flowers you picked or bought to brighten your home and say to yourself "I love you."
Try it. Say it. "I love you." Go to the mirror right now. Look at yourself and say "I love you." Skip all urges to say I see gray hairs, I need to go do my hair first. Stop. Just stop with all that "fear" stuff. It is simple as picking 1 flower on your walk and bringing to your home and putting it in a jar and filling it with water.
Say it with positive feeling: "I love you." There feels good. Yes to you. Yes to a great, beautiful and happy life filled with special treasures.

It starts with being nice to yourself. After you've mastered being nice to yourself first with simple easy indulgences then you can splurge on to bigger and better things. Play the game of life. Everyone else does.
Big business games. All games. Study chess, educate, learn and choose wisely for yourself. Then you can choose wisely for your family ad those you love. Love + nice to yourself = Winner.
By this time I bet your house looks more like a celebration party where someone is treating you to a party.

Surpassed! You've been thrown a party! A simple outdoor picnic can be an extravagant way to celebrate the new you that has emerged with just 1 flower. Bloom into the beautiful you. Love yourself. Be nice to yourself. You've heard over and over: treat and respect yourself right and others will do the same. So, look at you now. Being pampered to tea & crumpets. You are fantastic. Thank you for liking you.  If no one ever told you that you were special and a lovely person then I'll tell you: You are lovely. Thanks for being the wonderful you -you are! That smile with the rose looks great on you.

To your new life with sweet indulgences of "niceties" to yourself. You have just won the game of chess.
Cheers.

How You Feel About Money Is In Direct Relation To What Is In Your Bank Account

Your feelings are directly associated to the amount of money in your bank.
Compare how a Kardashian feels about money and note their bank account total.
Compare a cynical person who thinks money is "evil"  and note  their bank account total.
A noteable difference is observed. The comparison is to illustrate feelings about money and those who feel and accept they deserve a lot of money usually do. Those who have some "feeling" issues around money usually find a bumpy road in their fiance area.
Have you read the book "Rich Dad Poor Dad?"  Interesting comparisons and noteworthy points to ponder int the book.
Rethink your thoughts by finding out how you really feel about money. What is the real truth? It is whatever you believe and accept as real. If it is a subconscious like "money is evil" it can be like a record playing constantly in your mind. Time to change the record playing in your head to: "money is great", "money is awesome to have and spend", "extra money in my checking and savings account feels fantastic", "money to go on yearly vacations feels terrific," "money to buy my first home is thrilling" and "money to maintain my home is priceless."
You can change your thoughts and feelings because you see how wonderful it is to have extra money. Time to change your record.

Have you wondered why you seem to be stuck in a money rut and others are not? Let's get you unstuck?
I am sharing a interesting article that summarizes a comparison between successful people and those who are not. It is something to wonder, learn, educate and explore.
Knowledge and wisdom is good when it will help you to have a positive change for good in your life.
"Ways Rich People Think Differently Than The Average Person" is full of good keys.
http://www.rsvlts.com/2012/09/06/21-ways-rich-people-think-differently-than-average-people/#4
by H.Q. Roosevel.t

How do you see money? Good or evil.  Are you emotional positive about money? Or does money have a negative charge for you? If you'd like a river flow of more money coming in than out and you currently do not then it is worth the time to identify your true feelings about money. How do you see your money flowing?

It is up to you to believe. Your imagination and beliefs are real to you. Believe you can have success, fun, happiness, abundance and a great life. Who told you money was no good? No good for what? It is good to buy and maintain a home for you and your family. It is good to buy food to eat, clothes to wear, and pay bills. Extra money is good to share with family members birthdays and even given to charity. Money is good to buy warm blankets and pay the heater bill in winter. Money is good to have the air conditioner on in summer and pay for a first class ticket to a beach vacation in Nice, France.
Learn more about yourself and your associations with money and then fix it.

Why is money evil? Where did this concept come from? Who handed this down into your brain to prevent money flowing into your life?
Money is something a person uses to purchae eggs, milk, toilet paper, toothpaste, shavers, sunscreen, pay bills, buy homes, make car payments, pay taxes, make investments, buy presents, buy dog food, make a charitable donation, send grandma flowers, send Mom flowers on Mothers day, etc.
Money is good. It feels good to buy a new Prada dress that is perfectly fitted to your body. You look like a shinning star. You feel confident and good.
Feel good about the wonderful things that you can do with extra money.
It feels good to go first class instead of coach.
If you are fine with going coach then that is your feeling, choice and thinking.
If someone enjoys flying by private jet with luxurious leather seats and bed then that is there feeling, choice and thinking.
One is not better than the other but one feels a whole lot better than the other.
Have you ever sat next to a  passenger who had a cough, runny noise and wiped sweat from their brow the whole trip?  It is good to enjoy some opulent, fun, luxurious treats in your life. Invite good in. Welcome good.
Let's energize and positive your feelings about money. Let any old thoughts or wrong thoughts about money go!!!

You determine what you do with money. Choose to have more money in your life. You deserve it. It is good.
Do you need Billions? That is your choice. It is neither good nor bad it simply is just a choice.
Money is joyful. It is such a beautiful thing to get a new puppy of your choosing. Rescues are lovely too but it is your choice. It is ok to choose whatever you want: dog, cat, fish, bird, turtle, etc.
One is not better but different choices.
Some choices bring more joy, more fun, more happiness, more excitement, more comfort, and more peace in your life. Choose wisely. Choose to be a happy winner. Choose to enjoy money and feel good about money. Having money will not hurt you. What you do with money is your choice."They" say things to buy you happiness. What does that mean? On earth you need to pay for rent, mortgage, taxes, gas, power bill, cellphone bill, car payment, insurance, dish detergent, shampoo, laundry detergent, groceries, etc. Money is good for all of those "things." If those "things" are paid on time I bet you are a whole lot happier when they are!
Money is good to buy a pair of designer shoes that are made with real leather.
Plastic shoes can cut your feet, break and give you blisters. Not fun. Not joyful.
Money is fun and you can do fun things with it. You can take your family on a vacation to Disneyland for the whole weekend with money to buy souvenirs!
Feel all the good things you can do, buy, achieve,invent, create, help your family and others with money. Or just yourself as it is a choice, thought, feeling and emotion. It is up to you. What record of "money emotion" are you playing constantly in your head. I am choosing to have records  automatic play of "money is good" "money is wonderful" "money can bring so much joy and beauty to enrich my life,"and "extra money to go on vacations and splurge feels so good!"
So, if you want your own private island that is ok. It is not wrong or right. It is simply a choice. The choice is yours. You want a nice home with a garden and pool for your family. Great! How do you feel about the money to buy it? Good. Money is good.
Your emotions energize things to you fast. Give energy and emotion to good positive things in your life. Remember more +++++ =+ Why not be that kid who had dreams and wishes. What are you dreams that make you happy? What do you want? What would you like that makes you happy? Believe it and receive it. It is good. Richie Rich was always happy. Remind yourself to have fun! Remember being a kid and playing pretend. It was always happy to play and pretend.

Feel good about having and receive money. Believe it is good and right to have abundance of money. Think of all the fun things you can do. You might be the next real estate developer, TV personality, best selling author, award winning actor, gold medal athlete, restauranteur, inventor, scientist, BBQ judge, best quilter, gardener, Mom, wife, sister, brother, husband, entrepreneur, philanthropist, friend, etc.  Just open to success, abundance, prosperity, wealth, opulence, indulge, fun, happiness, extra and it is good to thing and feel these things. Have you ever seen a girl be unhappy with a Louis Vitton purse as a gift? Nice things are nice. It is good to receive nice things. Flowers are nice. Thorns are not nice if they prick you. Food and grocery money is good. Bills paid on time is awesome. Money pays the bills. It is a good thing. Feel how fun it is to enjoy money. Congratulations for taking positive steps to create a better and more abundant world for you.
Yes to you. Yes to more abundance in your life. Yes to good things coming to you. Yes to more money flowing into your life than out. Yes, to having a wonderful, successful, joyful, happy abundant, healthy and amazing life. Yes. Yes we can. Yes you can!! Wow, you look so fantastic. Money is good. Money looks good on you.