Manifesting Your Soul Mate

Have you dreamed of your big day? Do you see yourself walking down the isle with your boquet of
red roses as the long train of  your white dress trails behind you?

Do you hear your Mom crying as you are about to say "I do."
Do you want to get married? Why? Are you ready for a lasting, loving, monogamous commitment?
This is the real question before marriage to ponder besides what dress you'll wear to the ball
To be or not to be committed to a lasting commitment with another person.

Men aren't like puppies who you can train to go and do whatever you want!
They are an independent individual and might not like liver pate like Fluffy Wuffy does.
Are you ready to live with a vegan but you are a meat eater?
Are you a squeaky clean while he's a messy mad hatter?
Do you like pop music while he belts out his favorite country songs daily?
Do you want to lie at the Four Seasons pool in Hawaii while he wants to go climb mt Everest?
Do you like small toy dogs that fit into your Louis  Vuitton while he wants a big 140 pound husky to pull a sleigh with?
Relationships require special effort, care and mutual communication.
A dash of TLC will go a long way if you have a sweet & salty relationship.
To strike a balance is to achieve success. To give and take is ideal.
To learn from one another for can lead to a more richer life full of enjoyment.
What you want wants you is the law of attraction. Your guy is probably looking for you now.
Time to wear your favorite lil black strapless dress. A lil help from high heels and short skirts never hurts!

So, you've found your ready to commit, will compromise on a medium size dog and try beef brisket! Well done. You are ready for love.
You've found your dress which you've tried on 150 times in front of the mirror and have sworn to the Akins diet till you fit into it.
Great but where is your groom? If you are alone why is that? Oh, you don't go out you say.
You don't have any cute guys at your office.
All the guys at the gym are married.
All the good guys are taken.
There is a guy shortage.
O.k., why all the (-) energy? Why all the positive talk about guys?
You forgot to magnetize & energize your wants .i.e. your guy.
Let me remind you why we post pictures. Just like Rocky you have to fight for the prize.
So keep your eye on the prize and box positive words about guys till your soul mate appears!!!
 Here's the prize:

There feel better:Remember always say there are plenty of guys going in and out of my office and I catch the right guys attention. I get spotted at the gym by the new member. I am a good guy magnet. I am invited to parties where their are plenty of eligible single bachelors looking or a committed relationship. I go to church, school, mall, work and find myself a guy magnet.
Are you energizing your finance into your life with positive words, thoughts and actions?
Do you speak to your girlfriends as if there is plenty of fish to go around? The attraction magnet hears you when you spoke to your girlfriends about how there aren't' any guys so just like a Fairy God Mother magnet it made sure the guy coming for you took a left turn instead!
New conversations for girlfriends:
"Oh Joyce, all of a sudden I am meeting so many great guys, I feel just like the Bachelorette on TV!"
"Joyce, Mark is so sweet and good looking. He wants a long term commitment. He went to Yale!!!" Insert happy face and screams here.
Only tell Joyce, postive things even if it looks, seems and is opposite. You don't want the
Fairy God Mother Magnet to hear anything but: "Oh my gosh, Joyce, Mark just proposed!!!!" Show her your big shinny diamond ring.  Guess what you just created & energized good things to come for you.
Bravo!! You deserve it. There are plenty of good guys and great girls. Magnetize pulling them in.
What you want wants you....Ok two dogs appears to be your comprise. If it works it works.

Your Visual Manifesting Collage

How to make a picture collage to manifest your presents for yourself.
Do you want a shinny new car? What kind?

What color? Four door or two door? Automatic or standard? Sport or Sadan?
If you don't know then your mind doesn't know.
Make specific choice and see it clearly. Mine is a black two door convertible vintage Ferrari.
I see myself in a Gucci black mini dress in ballerina flats driving down PCH, California with my Prada black glasses to have a margarita in Malibu.
Know exactly what you want.

Do you want to jet set and travel? Are you going to charter or own a jet?
What ideas, services or products are you going to make or do that will generate the money to make this dream turn into a realty now?

Do you have a driver? Are you in a Lincoln town car? Do you see yourself being chauffeured around by your driver Harry? "Harry, take me to Neiman's I have lunch at 1 with Doris."
Is your assistant making your traveling arrangements and setting your calender charity events?
"Elizabeth, I need the red Valentino silk gown fitted by June 10 for the Venetian Ball."
Are your bags ready and packed? Do you see it? Make your visual collage of things you love, want and desire. Charge your words, thoughts, emotions with positive yes energy to magnetize your wishes to you now.
Merrily dreaming of winning millions of dollars is simply a dream.
But coming up with actions, plans, ideas, services, inventions, products, art, etc is a wise action plan to success.

What does your soul-mate look like? What characteristics does he have? My guy looks like this :)

1. Charismatic
2. Smart
3. Successful
4. Mannerly & manly
5. Preppy
6. Intelligent & artistic
7. Sweet
8. Athletic
9.Funny
10. Chemistry 
Make your list and repeat daily 3 x times daily for slow results,  5 x or more for average results and 10 x or more daily for faster results. Believe it and know it as true. As you believe is true for you then you receive.
Why don't you believe a great guy is out there for you? You can get your hair colored and blow dried to look pretty. You can go to mall and ask for stylist assistance for smart looks. You can work out and eat right. You are fun, sweet, nice, smart and a great person. So there!! No more excuses. It's time. Your fairy godmother says so.  Post your photo and energize your great guy into your life. Do you want someone to go camping with? What are your wants: hiking, jogging, wine tastings, garden, snorkel, karate, art exhibits, travel, snowboard, horseback ride, paint, sculpt, dance, music festivals, etc?  Are you looking for a partner to go judge BBQ festivals with? What is some things you'd enjoy doing with your partner? Write it down....
Do you see him? (or her?)
"Eric, can you open the cabinet I'm making duck tonight your favorite."
Do you see yourself going on that summer vacation together in the south of France?
What time of the year? Summer. August 15. Now. Did you search for the airfares. Do you have your airfare alert sent to your email?
"Eric, I booked our jet charter to Cote D'azur. I packed your swimming trunks. I threw in sunblock 50, too."

Do you feel the warm sand under your toes as you walk along the beach? Do you smell the salt from the ocean air? Do you feel the warm wind blowing your hair? Do you feel the warmth of the sun caressing your skin? Do you see the bright colored beach umbrellas in blue, yellow, red, green, purple? Do you hear the lapping of the waves rolling onto the shore? Do you hear kids laughing as they run on the beach and make sand castles? Are you at the beach hut bar ordering your pina colada with strawberry garnish?  Are you tasting the cold frozen rum, coconut and pineapple? Do you feel a hand reaching out to grab yours as you walk to your beach umbrella?  Enjoy life now not later. Dream now and don't let them fade into the dark.
Energize your dreams today.

Key To Manifesting Your Castle

So you want the fairy tale story castle....
Have you a clear picture of your home castle you want?
Where is it located? Scotland, Paris, Italy, London, NY, California, Chicago, Thailand?
How many rooms? 200, 100, 50?
How many floors? 4 floors, 3 floors, 2 floors?
How many acres? Does it have a floral maze? Fountains? Statues?
Aaahhh, you say you don't know...Hmmm, you haven't gotten that far but just you want a castle.
Well your mind can only do so much to magnetize a castle if you are whisy washy with your wants/desires.
Key start: see it clearly and specifically. Post your photo on your visual magnet board of desires.

So now you see you want four floors, 100 rooms, 30 toilets and maze garden with Italian statues.

The ultimate key is do you believe you really want this? If you are half sure if you really want this then your mind is half sure. Maybe a vacation to go on a castle tour of Vienna Castles is just as good. Perhaps staying at a bed and breakfast castle in Italy is suffice. Perhaps just thinking of castles in France makes you have goose pimples. If you are just dreaming about your desires then that's the "magnetized" energy on your wish "desire."
So maybe you are like the child in the film "Miracle On 34th Street" and your desire is a beautiful home for you and your family. Well then your "home" has great magnetic charging energy.  Post your photo, now, research on internet, newspapers and look for your home. Action + magnetized real wants = success/presents realized!

There do you see your "castle" home!  It's beautiful. Still has a spot for moat and statue with gardens. You just probably don't really need 100 rooms! Think of all the cleaning!
Ok, you say you deserve and want a castle. Why can't you have it all? Well, for those who do want to be royal and can muster up the magnetic energy to get a castle then go ahead. What will you invent, create, make or do to make your $50,000,000.00 to buy and upkeep your castle?  You can have anything you want. As you believe it is done. 

It starts with thoughts, words, images, belief and true desires.  Is it a true desire or a whimsical fantasy? Either case pick and be specific. I love my home!!!

See your self in winter putting logs on the fire to eat up the living-room while sipping on hot cocoa with marsh mellows. Are you reading a Charles Dickens book from your library to your children?  Is the smell of turkey seeping into the room with hints of rosemary and sage? Do you hear the children running down the stairs  to get their hot chocolate? Are you wearing a warm knitted scarf, hat and mittens to keep warm? Do you see the snow falling out the window of your castle? Are you sitting on a big cozy brown leather couch with your feet up on the black leather ottoman? Are you looking at the flower design in your oriental rug on the pale wooden floors?  See it, taste it and act as if you already have it. Charge your desires. Be a positive creator and not a passive passenger in life letting the winds blow you around like a tumble weed.  Take charge of your life and let it be fun, exciting, joyful, opulent, luxurious, beautiful and amazing. You deserve it. This is a abundant and beautiful universe which is limitless. Get your desires now and don't let them fade away. Be like a little kid and ask for the present you want for Christmas. Make your wish and remember to be specific and charge it daily!

Do you see yourself decorating your tree at your castle with your family and loved ones? Try it. You can do anything your mind is made up to do. I like a Angel on the top of my tree. I love the pretty colors of green, red and white. I love making little horse decorations to hang on the tree. I love little bears and sweet ornaments to accent the tree with. I love the lights to make the house feel bright and cheerful. I am enjoying my castle now.

To Attract Means To Receive

So you've read all those attracting books and you are asking yourself now what?
Did you get a ear full of "opposite of positive" ?
Me too!
Key #13
You Must Be Ready To Receive.
You asked for love, fulfillment, car, home, man, money, vacation, slim waist with all the positive vibrant energy you could muster up.
So, you are you ready to meet your soul mate? I mean, you did it one time and it should work, right?
I think you need your Fairy God Mother to un-cast the quick fix spell your under and you you the key to creating your own magic in your life.
Simple keys to  change - into a + and attract good into your life now:
Scientific reminder: it takes 9 months to make a baby so when you make daily consistent positive changes remember to give it time to work. Then keep these new positive habit  for life.
Your + talking, + visualizing, + thoughts, +emotions should = a lot more then any - talking, etc. you do.
"Elementary my dear," said Sherlock Holmes.
1. Visualize:
Thoughts are energy. Are you watching your "thoughts"?
If you don't watch them they will create on their own so might as well be a positive creator and create
great things in your life now.
If you don't train your thoughts they can be hypnotized by anyone's suggestions or words as your interact through out the day. What if you met evil warlocks all day and just let the Warlock say you are ugly and will not get a handsome prince? Would you just take his word? Or if you train your thoughts like a secret ninja then you will be armed and ready when you speak with your girlfriend and she says "Men suck."
You can say (spell) "Men are also wonderful and amazing and my soul mate is out there and so is yours. What you want wants you. So let's get a great guy!"
Training your words, thoughts, emotions is simple as riding a horse. You just put your foot into the stirrup and click your heel. Anyone can do it. It's like grading your kids home work paper. You see the mistakes so just correct them, immediately. Then stop doing opposite of positive.
Can you imagine sitting with your girlfriends for your engagement party?
You showing off your diamond ring and then another girlfriend says she just met a great guy too!
Take a pledge with your girlfriends to do the Positive/creative challenge. See who manifest their guy first by talking him into existence. (or her!) Have fun bringing in magazines where you do visualize board of guy, home, car, career, travel, etc. It's a fun project because it is all about you and your happiness.

Pictures to represent your soul-mate you want are great. Feel free to post on bathroom mirror, kitchen refrigerator door, car glove box, above computer and TV and where ever you will see your soul mate.
Secret box with pictures of your soul mate that you look at morning, noon and night. Listing great qualities:
respectful, kind, smart, honest, sincere, fun, creative, business sense, active, athletic, mannerly, polite, educated, preppy, sweet, etc. are great.
Are you picturing and seeing the castle and prince charming? What TV channel has your mind been watching? Is it stuck on the barren channel? Then change the channel to
"Super Smart Creator Channel" where you will magnetize, visualize and energize success, joy and happiness into your life.
Whenever your channel is on auto run and it switches back to the "Negative Barren Channel" just switch it back to the "Positive, Yes, I deserve good things in my life" channel. There are hundreds to choose from:
Success, Wealth, Happiness, Joy, Abundance, Castles, Prince Charming, Fit, Inventions, Ideas, Positivity, etc. 

2. Believe:
Do everything in your power to believe that your amazing soul-mate is ready to meet you!
You are wonderful, kind, lovely, sweet, caring, beautiful, resourceful, fun, humors, active and are ready for your soul-mate.

Believe goods things can and will happen for you like: there is an amazing wonderful soul-mate who is looking for you. Remember like will attract a like. What you want wants you so make sure you are wanting and liking only: positive, good, beautiful, healthy, successful, happy, joyful, abundant things into your life.
A soul mate is out there right now looking for you. He is saying, "I wish I can find a sweet, respectful girl who I have chemistry with who I can trust and build a lasting life with. I want her to be fun, out going and want to go travel with me."
Create your story here. Imagine what your soul mate is saying: I want her to like fishing, hiking, camping, traveling, cooking, wine tastings, fashion, ice-cream, vegan, meat eater, snow boarder, etc.
Get ready cause he/she is coming.....
Tip: if you are opposite of ready and believe 100% then "trick" yourself into believing.
When you are ready in your belief he/she will appear.
Be opposite of the "d" word is highly imperative.
Know it is right for you to find a great relationship with a respectful partner who is loving, caring, resourceful, abundant, to your taste/chemistry, fun, joyful, active, etc....Your list of qualities you enjoy:
Expect that an amazing wonderful and amazing person is your match.
It is natural and right to have a great person in your life. The happier you are the happy effect is contagious and can bring joy and good to the world. So it must be right!!!
If you need to have permission or be told then here you go: You can have an amazing relationship!!! It is possible so believe it as true. Accept it as true.

3. Joyful, happy, thankful Emotion:
Kick start the emotion as joyful, expectant, happy, elated and dance around knowing you have a great relationship with amazing qualities that are satisfying.
Vibrate on the high frequency of love. 
You forgot how to love? You don't feel loved? Ok so you are loved! We love you! You deserve love.
It is right and good to ask and want good things for yourself like joy, happiness, success, health, abundance, etc.
Watch your inner voice and challenge it with:
Yes I deserve a great relationship.
I expect and know I will have an amazing relationship so whatever you say opposite of that is "old lies" and no longer are excepted in my wonderful world.
Today I choose to the best life, best thoughts and believe in a great amazing world to live which is amazing for me.
I choose to win and be happy and invite only good things, people, events, thoughts and words into my life.
I indulge in positive words: happy healing words, happy loving words, the world is great, people are good, great things happen and are happening now, I am always healthy, I have more than enough money in my checking and savings account, I have an amazing partner, I have wonderful friends, my business is booming, I am cashing in checks from my work so fast I can't keep up....What are your positive word chargers?
4.Engage in positive discussions only with friends, family, co-workers and run from any opposite of positive chats, gossip, etc.
Stay clear of the "black hole" which chats about the opposite of health, money, success, etc.
Speak, say, think positive words only: Health, abundance, gratitude, thanks, joy, harmony, peace, success, etc.
Magnetize your thoughts, beliefs, words by action that reinforces your believes by stating:
It is a great day! I am thankful for rent and mortgage being paid in full for a year in advance!
I am thankful for great health.
I am thankful for plenty. My checking and savings account grows daily.
I have rich ideas. I am rich with health. I am rich with the best food. I am rich with great friends and family.
I love "Think And Grow Rich" here is link to some affirmations.
Create your own, too!
http://www.poweraffirmations.com/list-of-488-power-affirmations.pdf
 Speak of riches in your life: I am rich with the best dog in the world. I am rich with a beautiful warm state.

5. Create what you wants.Write down your positive affirmations 1-3 times a day.
I am rich. I am healthy. I am happy. I am fit. I am loved. I am loving. I am blessed. I am thankful. I am worthy of love. I am deserving of love. I am happy with myself. I love myself.
Remind yourself you are great, worthy and deserving of having a beautiful and wonderful life.
Most people who already achieved these things believed and felt they deserved it. They demanded the best, took it and did it! Learn from the pros! Watch, learn and take the techniques.
Most athletes need a coach and they practice. So, if you haven't become a professional successful happy person in life then practice and do the steps until success is achieved.
The coach says: "You can do it!" The coach also demands them to be #1 and be better than everyone else.
You can pick the part you prefer.
Cheerleaders: "Go, fight, win!"  Remember how they energize the crowd to cheer for the team to win? Be your own cheerleader. Remind yourself you are a winner.

6.You must believe it is OK, right, good for you to win and it will be the best feeling in the world to know how to feel good.  Be active and take action. Go for walks, pick or buy flowers for your house, keep a clean house, fix yourself up everyday, exercise daily, eat nutritious, educate and learn. Do what you love and find those who believe in your talent/product and be a winner.
The airplane or telephone wasn't invented over night but in time with consistent action and learning.

Are you scared of success or love? Why? Who told you these lies? Where did they come from? Don't believe in this old lie anymore!!!
Do you see kids who get a new shinny red bicycle for Christmas? They smile with a beaming smile that shines for miles. They are happy. They did not turn into a frog or turn into a purple alien. They simply enjoyed the bike and rode it around the block.
It is 100% okay to get a brand new car, home, bike, outfit. New things are beautiful.
It's okay to be wise with your money. It is okay to be smart with money. Get new nice things you really want and then be wise to mix and match with great deals and finds. It is fun to go to yard sales, thrift stores, bargain hunting but there is nothing as special as a brand new shinny ring, car or house.
It is okay to ask for ideas, inventions, cures, products that people will enjoy to get you brand new shinny things.
Spanx owner is a Billionaire. Harry Potter's creator is a Billionaire.
Create something that will give you the money for brand new shinny things. You might just come up with the cure or product the world has been waiting for. When you have millions in the bank then you can share more and help other people more. Build your light and let it shine bright. The world is waiting for great new inventions.

7. Feel good about being a winner, a successful happy person.
Get used to the new feeling of amazing, wonderful, awesome, superb, A+, decadent, opulent, luxurious, fun, loved, respected, extravagant, enjoyable, smart, intelligent, wise, etc.
What are some words to describe the most successful people in the world?
What are some words to describe amazing heroes in your home town?
What are some words to describe your favorite inventors, painters, writers, actors, physicians, athletes, etc.?
Why do you like these people? They dress nice, are successful, they are smiling, they did it and took action to achieve their dreams.....
Who do you look up to and why?
What qualities are similar to you?
Practice, stay focus, believe, take action toward your goal daily and try try the positive thoughts, words and actions everyday.
The list is all positive qualities and they believed in themselves and were confident.

8. Have confidence in yourself that you were born to be exactly you!
Accept yourself just as you are then give yourself the positive coach and cheer-leading squad.
Be your best cheerleader. You must care about you as you are the biggest winner from believing in you.

9. Imagine what it would be like to be successful, abundant and happy.....
You've just got to say yes and receive the wonderful good things life has. Life is beautiful. It is the most pretty world if you'd just discover the beauty and joy of life. Look for the joy and good in life. It is there.
There is good and beauty in this world.
Test drive a Ferrari today.
Walk to Tiffany's dressed up and try on a shinny big diamond ring.
Fix your hair, color your hair, blow dry your hair, try on a new designer dress. Go ahead your worth it.
You will find that the world is: Yummy. Taste life it is delicious.
So much fun.
Happiness beaming from ear to ear.
You get to go do fun things and see the world.
You can hire people and create things.
You can invent things or make things.
You can share the love and joy.
You feel good and spread the joy.
You'll probably throw parties, be charitable and feel more joy and love in return.
10. Know it is 100% right to be happy, healthy, successful and have the best life ever.
The secret is out so go get yours.
When you become thinner, healthier, happier and more successful you will find more joy!
A big boogie man is not going to hurt you when you become happy!!! Erase those old lies. Remember you've been given permission to be happy, successful and have joy in your life.
Experience the fun and joy of life. It's time. Tick tock. The long hand says time to be happy.
Let your light shine bright.
When it warm out the birds chirp, the squirrels play, the dog naps, the kids play and you dance with the world.
Grandma sees a budding new flower already. Let us know when you meet your soul-mate or had a good change.